Dad would often have a Bloody Mary after he finished mowing the lawn, the spicy tomato juice concoction in a tumbler that said “Name Your Poison” with a glass swizzle stick he used to stir it. He strode up the back yard to our house in a sweaty, gasoline-stained t-shirt, walked into the kitchen, took the gin from a cabinet and poured himself a round, perspiration beading his ice-filled glass. Once he let me take a sip as well, though I was just a kid. His clammy arm draped around my shoulder, he steadied the drink in my small hands with one of his own, then laughed at how my face screwed up in disgust. The color looked like fruit punch to me and I thought I was in for a treat that he allowed me to sample it, but what a disappointment to find out the flavor was not at all appealing. Decades later, my tastes have changed. These days when I have a Bloody Mary, I swear the essence of cut grass is in the mix with other garnishes: dill pickle, olive, horseradish, celery. What flows over the palette, past the tongue connects with memory in a way that is more potent than other senses, awakening the mind to recall a scene long gone by, almost forgotten.
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